WOMEN NOTE: 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN

Sunday, February 17, 2019


  1. Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
  2. Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
  3. Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
  4. Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
  5. Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
  6. Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
  7. Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
  8. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
  9. Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
  10. Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matterif time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
  11. Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
  12. Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
  13. Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
  14. Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
  15. Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
  16. Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
  17. Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
  18. Never base your love on monetary things.Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
  19. Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him.Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
  20. If your idea worked better than his, nevercompare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
  21. Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
  22. A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
  23. Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to changeyour cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
  24. Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
  25. Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
  26. Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
  27. Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
  28. Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
  29. You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your familyfor any reason. (Prov 31v28)
  30. A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)

Have a lovely day. God bless u all

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Andy Stanley: Enemies of the Heart - “The Simmering Volcano”

Saturday, January 26, 2019

Scripture: Matthew 15:1-20
Our tendency is to monitor our behavior while pretty much ignoring our hearts. After all, how do you monitor your heart? I can’t get too far off base in my behavior without somebody drawing it to my attention. But my heart? That seems a bit more complicated.
Jesus said something that still has huge implications today: “The things that come out of a person’s mouth come from the heart,” and then, “Out of the heart come evil thoughts.”
The heart is such a mystery. In fact, one prophet asked of the heart, “Who can understand it?” (Jeremiah 17:9). Good question. The implication is that nobody can. With which I readily concur. And even if we do begin to understand it, we certainly can’t control it—which is all the more reason we need to learn to monitor it. Like the seismic activity of a dormant volcano, what you don’t know can hurt you.
Suddenly someone files for divorce.
Suddenly a kid’s grades drop and his attitude changes.
Suddenly a harmless pastime becomes a destructive habit.
Out of nowhere devastating words pierce the soul of an unsuspecting loved one.
We’ve all seen it, felt it, even caused it. Just as Jesus predicted, what originates in the secrecy of our hearts won’t always remain a secret. Eventually it finds its way into our homes, offices, and neighborhoods.
The heart seeps into every conversation. It dictates every relationship. Our very lives emanate from the heart. We live, parent, lead, relate, romance, confront, react, respond, instruct, manage, problem solve, and love from the heart. Our hearts impact the intensity of our communication. Our hearts have the potential to exaggerate our sensitivities and insensitivities. Every arena of life intersects with what’s going on in our hearts. Everything passes through on its way to wherever it’s going. Everything.
We need the courage to ask the heavenly Father for help to watch over, understand, and purify our hearts. He is eager to respond and to show us how to replace old bad habits of the heart with new and better ones that will in time make us more like his Son.
In the next four days of these devotionals, we’ll be looking at four enemies of the heart that everyone faces.
What do your recent thoughts, words, and actions reveal about what’s going on in your heart? Ask someone close to you for his or her opinion about this as well.

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